I can empathize with her. She's probably bothered by fans 24/7, put yourself in her shoes. She probably just wanted some time alone for whatever reason, and she wasn't in the mood to get bothered by fans. Regardless, it sucks that you got told off by a celebrity, I am sorry you had to go through that. :-/ Must have been incredibly embaressing.
If you go into a career to become famous, then they need to deal with it. She could of been a stock trader making 300k a year and be rich also, but no, she wanted to be known. All celebs need to realize that it's your job, deal with it.
Thing is, the general public are unable to put themselves in the shoes of anyone but themselves, I detest the general public, as by and large they are a selfish lot.
I wouldn't lend my lighter to anyone else either frankly.
at least you admit your an asshole, frankly.
Go buy your own lighter, asshole.